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Sports

My 15-year-old wants to quit soccer after 8 years

Eight years isn't quitting the minute it gets hard — that's a massive run for a fifteen-year-old. He's not learning to walk away from effort; he's just outgrown this specific thing.

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Trust

My 16-year-old lied about where she was Friday night

You're not losing her. She's sixteen, she wanted to go where everyone else was going, and she knew you'd say no if she told the truth.

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College

Our college freshman wants to come home

Week six is peak freshman misery—the novelty has worn off, midterms are starting, and he hasn't found his people yet. Calling you every night gives him a release valve, but it's also keeping him anchored to home instead of his campus.

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Phones & social media

My 12-year-old says she's the only one without Snapchat

Don't cave. If you move the boundary because she's freezing you out at dinner, you teach her that freezing you out works.

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