The Parenting Survival Library
26 playbooks for the hard parts.
The big handovers
Ages 10-13
The First Phone Playbook
What to set up, what to say, and what to sign before you hand over the first smartphone.
OpenAges 16-17
The Teen Driving Agreement
Passenger caps, night rules, who pays for what, and the ride-home rule that keeps them alive.
OpenAges 18+
The College Send-Off
The last summer, the first bad week, money, grades, and how often to text.
OpenScreens and gaming
Ages 6-14
Screen Time Limits That Actually Hold
How to set a screen limit your kid stops arguing with, and what to do when they blow through it anyway.
OpenAges 13-15
The First Social Media Account
When to say yes to Instagram, Snapchat or TikTok — and the settings and rules to lock in first.
OpenAges 8-14
Video Games, Fortnite and the Endless Match
How to handle games designed never to end, voice chat with strangers, and the rage when you call time.
OpenHome and routines
Ages 6-16
Chores and Allowance Without the Nagging
A chore system that survives past week two, and whether allowance should be tied to it.
OpenAges 4-11
Bedtime Battles
The stalling, the fifth glass of water, and the kid who ends up in your bed at 2am.
OpenAges 3-10
The Picky Eater
How to stop the dinner table standoff without cooking three meals a night.
OpenAll ages
Divorce and Two Homes
How to tell them, how to hand over, and how to stop the kids becoming the messengers.
OpenBehavior and discipline
Ages 2-7
Tantrums and Meltdowns
What to do in the middle of a full meltdown, including the one happening in aisle six.
OpenAges 4-14
Sibling Fighting
When to referee, when to stay out, and how to stop being the family judge.
OpenAges 5-13
When Your Kid Lies
Why kids lie, how to react so they stop, and what to do when you already know the truth.
OpenAges 8-16
Back Talk and Disrespect
The eye-rolls, the muttering, the "you can't make me" — and how to hold a line without a screaming match.
OpenSchool and friends
Ages 10-17
Homework Fights and Slipping Grades
How to stop nightly homework battles and respond to a bad report card without blowing up the relationship.
OpenAges 8-15
When Your Kid Is Being Bullied
What to do first, how to work the school, and when to escalate — including online bullying.
OpenAges 7-14
Friendship Trouble and Exclusion
The group chat they were dropped from, the best friend who turned, and the kid with no one to sit with.
OpenFeelings and mental health
Ages 6-16
The Anxious Kid
Constant worry, stomach aches before school, and the reassurance loop that quietly makes it worse.
OpenAges 6-14
The Kid Who Won't Go to School
Morning refusals, mystery stomach aches, and how to get them back through the gate.
OpenAges 13-18
Teen Mental Health Warning Signs
How to tell normal teenage moodiness from something that needs help — and how to ask the hard question.
OpenThe teenage years
Ages 14-18
The First Relationship
Rules for dating that keep you in the loop instead of shut out — plus what an unhealthy relationship looks like.
OpenAges 11-17
The Sex and Consent Conversations
How to have the talks in small pieces, cover consent and porn, and stay someone they'll ask.
OpenAges 13-18
Vaping and Weed
What to do when you find a vape, and how to talk about weed without losing credibility.
OpenAges 15-18
Alcohol and Parties
The questions to ask before they go out, and the pickup deal that keeps them safe.
OpenAges 14-18
Curfew and Going Out
How to set a curfew they'll keep, and how to handle the night they don't.
OpenAges 15-18
Money and the First Job
Teaching money before they leave home: a first bank account, a first payslip, and where it all goes.
OpenYour version is never the standard one.
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